Friday, December 10, 2004

Marcia has a Stalker

Why does this always happen? The blind date mistook my turning away from his kiss and routing it to a quick hug as my admission to true love. Can a man and a woman go out and have a good time, and just be friends? I guess not. This isn't the first time this has happened. Actually it happens a lot to me. I go out, and I know instantly who its going to happen with. If I am shy and a bit intimidated by a man, it doesn't happen. This usually happens with men that I date that are older then me and that I was physically attracted too. On the other hand...when I am not intimidated at all, and have to take the upper hand in date, I know that its going to be a bust. That is the submissive side in me I guess. To me...if I am not around a man that is Dom, there isn't really an attraction no matter what he looks like. I am thinking I should just give up dating non-Dom men....or at least men that arent very assertive.


Anyway...the blind date seems to think that we are a couple now. What do I do? I'm not one to blow a person off (yeah, I know, I'm to fucking nice.")

Oh well....any suggestions on how to get rid of the man that calls me 4 times a day and makes plans will be appriciated....

1 Comments:

Blogger Jefferson said...

You better move fast before he buys a ring! Try this: "Much as I appreciate your attentions, I am not interested in a romantic relationship with you."

If he persists, try: "Look, you are a nice guy and I want to spare you the trouble. My girlfriend is getting parole tomorrow."

If he still doesn't get it, try: "Which is the one with vaginal secretions, gonorrhea or herpes?"

The only other sure-fire way to lose a guy is by saying you are interested in a committed, long term relationship, with sex only in marriage. But I wouldn't risk it with this guy.

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